When we live in the steady stream of God's grace - we can't help but soak the world around us with unmerited favor.
Conditional love is not love, it's an exchange of merited approval. But there's something beautiful about humble constant awareness of our need for God's daily grace. The streams of God's Spirit can turn a soul-desert into an oasis of love. It can cleanse us of grudges, chips on shoulders, prejudice, and selective affection.
Pride dries out the soul, but moment by moment recognition of our need for God can fill us to overflowing with love. And it's bound to splash onto those around us.